Robert Greene says in Law 34 of The 48 Laws Of Power, "Do not wait for a coronation; the greatest emperors crown themselves."
If you want to be well-respected, treat yourself with more respect. Others will take notice, and follow suit.
The same goes for any perception of yourself. Want to be seen as the Greatest Teacher in the World? How about the Best Sibling Ever?
Then claim yourself as such, and march forward.